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Filed 3 months ago, I have wanted to tell them, but I know it should be done together. She is insistant not to tell them yet until we know more.
Know more what? That we will have seperate living.
Why does she want to play this sharade? The kids must know some thing at 9 and 10 yrs old. The 9 year old is now having trouble sleeping every night, that's new behavior.
I just don't understand. Next court is in Jan. 3 more months before we tell them? We will be doing mediation soon and she still has yet to take the parenting class(early Nov.). Hopfully she will learn something in that class, I did.
What do you think?
Know more what? That we will have seperate living.
Why does she want to play this sharade? The kids must know some thing at 9 and 10 yrs old. The 9 year old is now having trouble sleeping every night, that's new behavior.
I just don't understand. Next court is in Jan. 3 more months before we tell them? We will be doing mediation soon and she still has yet to take the parenting class(early Nov.). Hopfully she will learn something in that class, I did.
What do you think?
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the longer u wait the less time u have to explain to your children. if you continue to hold off it will be as if they were rushed into accepting the divorce. i recommend counseling for all of you if needed.....best of luck!
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might want to just take it upon yourself to tell them. Might be harder to do it solo but like Sandra said, it should be done sooner than later.
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