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she is being rewarded?
I have been trying not to dwell on this and just let it go, but I can't so I thought that maybe if I shared it it would help.
STBX and the kids are now living with her new guy and the divorce isn't final. He is still married too. Well since this all began it seemed that STBX's Mom has been there to reward her for tearing apart the family. Her Mom co-signed the lease for the townhouse. Her Mom gave her money. She never wanted to ask for money when we were having tough times during our marriage. Now it sounds as if her Mom is either going to buy them a house.
She doesn't make enough money and her guy's credit sucks, so they wouldn't be able to get a mortgage for a home large enough for all 9 of them. Now that it seems STBX is quitting her job it would be even more difficult. So the only way I can see this happening without actually asking how they are doing it is that her Mom buy the house and rent it to them. Which again seems like her Mom is rewarding her.
I have not gotten or asked for one penny of finacial assistance from anyone during this even though I feel as though I was the one that was treated so bad.
Oh well, I know that I once the house sells and I move into something a bit more affordable, I will be much better off.
I just felt the need to vent a bit.
I have been trying not to dwell on this and just let it go, but I can't so I thought that maybe if I shared it it would help.
STBX and the kids are now living with her new guy and the divorce isn't final. He is still married too. Well since this all began it seemed that STBX's Mom has been there to reward her for tearing apart the family. Her Mom co-signed the lease for the townhouse. Her Mom gave her money. She never wanted to ask for money when we were having tough times during our marriage. Now it sounds as if her Mom is either going to buy them a house.
She doesn't make enough money and her guy's credit sucks, so they wouldn't be able to get a mortgage for a home large enough for all 9 of them. Now that it seems STBX is quitting her job it would be even more difficult. So the only way I can see this happening without actually asking how they are doing it is that her Mom buy the house and rent it to them. Which again seems like her Mom is rewarding her.
I have not gotten or asked for one penny of finacial assistance from anyone during this even though I feel as though I was the one that was treated so bad.
Oh well, I know that I once the house sells and I move into something a bit more affordable, I will be much better off.
I just felt the need to vent a bit.
Vent away..and remember that we are better off in the end with our self-respect and dignity intact.