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Why does it hurt so???

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Packing my life into a box for storage is so hard. Finding little mementos is so hard as it brings back the good old days.

Packing it away means that one day I will have to unpack and will these feelings come rushing back? Our remaining days together under one roof is quickly coming to an end.

Somehow I must find the courage since there have been so many of you who have survived this moment. I was fine yesterday and now today I can't stop the crying.

Why???
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because honey, your on an emotional roller coaster. i'd be worried if you were not. hopefully when you unpack the box in the future you can smile at the good memories. you'll find the courage. we all did. we'll be here for you through thick and thin. hang in there.
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I have started packing up our life as well. I had to stop because of the contested divorce but I know when I go back it is going to be so hard. I am not living with him anymore and that helps but I still have to deal with the kids back and forth everyday. If I could go 2 days without crying it would be a miracle. I still cry almost everyday but it is getting easier.
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I am so sorry for you pain. Looks like I will have to do the same one day too. I don't know HOW I'll be able to.
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Because 2 became 1 and you took your vows seriously. From what I gather, most everybody here did also. You are in the right place and you will find your way back. Learn from the people here who can walk with you and who have been where you are now. It does get better.
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Our divorce just started and my stbx isn't even out of the house yet but I started going through things, throwing away things we've saved over the years, and packing up our wedding momentos. Sometimes it helps me, most of the time I cry. I am hoping that when we finally sell the house it will be easier, but probably not.
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