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Why does everyone hurt me (UK based)

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I feel like my life is over. My divorce four years ago has totally destroyed me. I tried to move on, met a lovely Dutch girl and had a daughter (to add to my two lovely sons from my marriage), but I ruined it all getting involved with a girl from work, who is married. This girl told me all the usual "my marriage is a sham", and "you are the love of my life" stuff, so I ended it with the Dutch girl and moved her and my daughter out, only for (you guessed it) this other girl to say she is giving her marriage a go, and is now pregnant herself. I feel so angry and useless and so so alone. I hate this girl for what she did to me, feel so ashamed at everything.
solongbye
solongbye
ok Courier, I haven't read anything funny today..that was funny..sad..but true and funny.
deleted_user
deleted_user
SHAME ON YOU, you had a good wife, then a girl friend, but you could not leave your pecker in your pants so you buggered a married lady....

DOGS WITH FLEES ITCH, go scratch yourself...
deleted_user
deleted_user
we all make mistakes. sounds like you are suffering enough. don't know why everyone is bashing you. you are bashing yourself enough - you know you were a fool, right? if you really loved the dutch girl you wouldn't have split up with her. if you blame yourself endlessly then you will hurt yourself inside. sounds like you made some stupid decisions but that doesnt mean that you shouldn't have some sympathy, which is what i am offering you. it will take a long time to heal, but you will learn from the experience.
deleted_user
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I hope Kellyq reads this post, it's a wonderful true life example of "what goes around comes around." There is karma after all. Woohooo!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
No sympathy here...Moved the dutch girl and your daughter out..Sounds like my ex,,threw me and our daughter out at 8 months old.Real man. Wish nothing but the worst for him. I hope it comes back to him. No help here...Maybe this site was good for you to post now you know how much of a selfish never happy person you are. Take a good look at yourself and if you have issues do yourself a favor and work on them and get help. My ex didn't and he is through 3 woman with 3 daughters, I am so happy to have my daughter but wish I never met him.
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