OK here\'s the question I pose to anyone who has been the one to leave the marriage, and anyone who has been left. I would like 2 perspectives on this!!! Ok my husband has the \"daddy\'s little girl\" thing going with our 6 year old, always had since the day she was born. She was the only one of the four that even bothered with him. She perfered him to me as a baby everything daddy daddy daddy!!! In all of this I have not giving my children false hope, i tell them straight up, even if the truth is gonna hurt. She keeps asking me when is daddy coming home, she is having the worst time with this. They all are, but shes taking it the hardest. Well anytime she asks me, I tell her she has to ask Daddy that question, I can\'t answer for Dad. Well she been going around the house telling her siblings and me that daddy\'s moving back home. This was like the 3rd time I have heard her. She asks him all the time. He is telling her he probally is then he doesn\'t know! So the question I pose is this, why does he feel that lying to her and giving her some type of false hope will 1 shut her up and 2 make her feel better? Or does he not even know? By the way I have stopped asking that question!!!
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