Why is it that when you get a divorce the Ex will start doing things with the OW that he wouldn't do with you? My ex never took a family trip with our son and me. Now, he is going to Disney with the OW and 2 of her 3 kids. When we were together he told me he didn't know if he even wanted kids. Our son comes along and he's out drinking in the bars every weekend etc. Now he's with someone who has 3 children. I don't understand how someone can so easily give up on their "own" family and so quickly move on to create a new one. We were only married 21/2 years. He never attempted to save our marriage. I'm convinced he cheated on me with her. But while we were together he didn't seem at all interested in marriage and family and now if he marries her he will have 4 children living with him at times. Any way. I just don't understand.
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