
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
And who knows why?
Sure, statistically speaking over 70% of men cheat but also more than 40% of women have as well. That's only of the ones that are telling the truth. So boys and girls, the answer is yes, once a cheater, always a cheater. UNLESS you go to great lengths to restore your marriage and or commitment to the person you cheated on, there can be restitution, forgiveness, and moving on. As long as the ppl involved DEAL with it.
High moral values and impulse control. I am not sure if it has been a good thing or not...
selfishness, lack of integrity, dishonesty. If you see those....go running for the hills.
I didn't mean to omply what they have at home is boring - just they got bored.
I wondered about the "once a cheater - always a cheater" thing with my EX. Turns out he did it/is doing it but his GF has no clue.
What you have to decide is how long you are willing to put up with it. How hard do you want to fight for this person? In the long run - if the cheater stops - will you ever be able to trust again? Are you able to forgive the cheater and the cheating? Are other areas of your life (kids, career, friendships, family relationships) suffering because you are so invested in "fixing" the cheater?
BIG HUGS for you.
I am sort of the same way; everyone starts out with a little piece of trust, and it builds over time. I will trust someone until they give me a reason not to trust them anymore.
Also, could you please clarify your post? I'm not sure what you meant as far as your response to JT's reply.