I left my soon to be x in late August, he was emotionally and mentally abusive, our marriage was breaking me down and our fighting was affecting our kids, 6 yo girl and 2 yo boy. We put our house up for sale, and he never tried to keep me from leaving. It is now almost 6 months later and I want him back more than ever, I can't give up, even though when we were married all I wanted was out. He refuses to work it out, he has a new girlfriend, and he says he will never be serious with her, but he doesn't want me or our family back; he says he is not ready and he hopes that when he is ready I will still be around. Why do I want someone who is such a jerk and who would just let me go without even trying to find out why I was leaving? Has anyone else experienced this?
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