Well he was with a new woman and now all of a sudden he's been coming around again telling me all the stupid stuff i like to hear. i dont know why i dont just tell him to get lost. he has no job, never did never will probably, been cheating on me since last fall, drinks too much, etc... but was with him almost 4 1/2 years and have a baby by him. now all of a sudden he's not with that girl anymore, he was staying with her a couple of weeks, and wants to be around me, but the big kicker is like tonight he wants me to come over and hang out and by the way stop on the way at the gas station and get him a 12 pack. he spent his money we were supposed to do something on tonight at a bar last night. how can i let myself do things like this??? am i crazy??? i mean i should tell this loser never to come around me ever again, but unless i have a revelation i will probably do the same stupid thing tonight and get him his beer and hang out with him. can someone give me some eye opening advice???
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