
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
1. Even though you may have people to talk to, it only feels better when you talk to her. It may be because you are used to talking to her or because she can answer questions you feel other people cannot
2. You have been married for years you get used to talking to someone even if you don't have much to say. Especially if you havent found a new love interest to talk to.
You are, like all of us, a junkie. You are addicted to this person and with them not being there you are going through withdrawl. I think with time the urges to call her will ease away.
Realize that if you want her back now or anytime in the future calling her only pushes her away. You don't have much to say to each other and she probably feels like she has more power and authority in the relationship. Unfortunately she doesn't respect you right now, believe me none of our stbx's do if they did they wouldn't treat us this way. Calling her only makes you look weaker. You will feel better and she will call you if you fall off of her radar and take the time you need to heal yourself.
Hope this helps I am in the exact same situation.