My husband left our home almost 2 months ago to be with his girlfriend. Things were not great between us before he left and I have secretly kind of wanted out for a while now. He was very controling and yelled most of the time. We were together for 14 years (since I was 18 years old). That being said, I can't stop thinking about him and the other woman. I wish that I could cut all ties but we have 3 children so we need to communicate. I know that it is not healthy but I think about the things that they are doing, where they are going, etc. They are living together now and he has become a great stepfather to her daughter mean while he only bothers with his own children when it is good for him. How do I stop thinking about this all of the time?? I know that people say that things will heal in time but it is in the back of my mind almost all of the time. When will this stop so that I can move on?? I want him to feel as badly as I do but he never did and she feels no remorse for breaking up a family. Any advice???
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