My husband has been going and coming in the house. He eventually came back and I thought he was going to stay...which lasted about 5 days and then left again with no explanation. Have not tried to come home to check on be and the kids and has not called. He texted me over the weekend and said we needed to talk but I was sooo mad at him that I didn't respond. He text me again on Monday...and then today. I responded to him today and he wanted to know since I mad my decision (he thinks I'm filing for separation) he wants to know when he can pick up some furniture out of the house. I WAS SOOO MAD!!! How dare him. he was the one that left not me...I he was the one that made the decision. He finally admitted (don't know if he was sincere) that he was wrong and that he was sorry. He should've talked to me before he left the house. I finally texted him back and asked What do you want? He says I never try to find out what is going on with him...so I asked What do you want. He never responded. And that urks me. It seems like he has the upper hand. I feel like he is with the other woman and won't try to contact me..but I am not sure. I think he does not want to respond to me because he don't know what he wants. I can speculate and say he does not want to be here but he is afraid to be the one who left the marriage...and everyone frowns on him. But if I divorced him...he can put it off on me. He wants to see him children tomorrow. I can't believe he is doing this to our family. How should I react towards him...should I even respond to his text messages? Should I listen to him? Does he miss us? Is he happier out there? Is he getting something that I can't provide....I am soo lost and sad. What is wrong with me. Why can't my husband love me instead of her.
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