I just sent off an email to the stbx stating i needed to know when he would have child support this month and then also told him i need him to start paying half of the debts i've been paying off each month. we were suppose to meet on sunday and after a weekend of me stressing out he cancel 1/2 hour before we were supposed to meet. he said he had a headache. i called him the next day and he didn't answer so now i just emailed him and i'm scared of what his response will be. why do i still let him do this to me? We've been separated for over a year and trying to do our own divorce because neither of us can afford a lawyer but i've been paying off our past debt for the last 6 months and i didn't bother him till now because he was on disablity for two of those but now i'm not making it financially and i need his help. I worried he's going to come at me with all the old emotional baggage and i'm so not looking forward to it. just needed to vent. thank you. need support while i wait for his response.
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