I have been with my ex for 5 years. He has left for the 2nd time this July. We have been talking off and on.After he ignored my birthday I manged to make it 34 days with no contact but my kids wanted to see him.(he is not their father but has been the only one they know) So I contacted him for them. Things seemed ok but he refuses to accept that I have changed. I made a comment that made him mad. I said "I am surprised you havent been with anyone else yet" cause he has always hoped from one relationship to the next. So anyway he gets mad at me and said that he cant do this anymore. I only asked him questions about what he is doing cause I was curious. Well in asking questions I find that when he doesnt have his son he spends his free time in a bar.Buying drinks and hanging out with a bunch of woman. He tells me they are just friends.It really doesnt matter. I dont know this guy. When we were together we never went to bars and he rarely drank. We would spend time with the kids or just stay home and watch a movie.He seems to be happy with this new life. Who is this guy now? Was he always this guy just didnt show me? Or maybe he just changed? I still love him but the man I love is gone. Anyone else have this happen? What do you think?
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