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I am open to all races, creeds and colors at this point.
I would really like for him to wear a uniform to work. LOL. That is my weakness. Police man, fire man, cook, bus driver, garbage man. I dont care. Just have a uniform. My friends say I am crazy.
Seriously, recent twists in my soon-to-be-over relationship have me questioning if I will ever trust a man again. If I do, I can't imagine what he'll "look" like.
I suppose my dream guy would love me for me, with all my flaws. They would love my babies unconditionally, and they would be a romantic by nature. I love to be sang too (I know, corny). He would be sweet, kind, and caring. He would talk about me to others with respect, not cruelty. He would be a man who worked and did not drink excessively. He above all would be my best friend and never turn his back.
If they passed a law and I had to pick a Mrs. Right by this evening I would pick one that is filthy rich and on her death bed. As long as she had a likeable personality.
Preferablly tall and dark haired...sorry my personal preference..
How is that? Too much to ask?
I would say that Miss Right (sorry, not looking for Mrs. Right, she's already married to Mr. Right, and I'm not going to be the OM, but I digress)...
I would say that she will be my best friend, someone who I can trust deeply and intimately with the innermost workings of who I am, and she will be able to do the same with me. She will know who she is, so that I can know who she is. She will be loving, caring, kind, and compassionate. All of these things will play into her being an excellent wife and mother. She will also not be afraid to have me in her life. She won't see me as a child, as my ex wife did. Her goal won't be to be a mother. She also won't be submissive - she will want to be a partner in life. An equal partner. She won't feel like she is less than me, nor will she feel superior. She will feel the need to work with me. To play into my strengths, and to work with my weaknesses. She will understand that I am not perfect either, and be willing to forgive my imperfections. When we don't get along, she won't hold it over my head, and she will understand that when she does something hurtful, the best response isn't to pretend it never happened, but rather to truly work to make things right, and to make sure I am ok. All of these will be a two way street - it will be give and take, love for love, and fully eternal. We won't be willing to let the little things kill us - and that is what will make all of the difference.
My mrs right. hummmm well she would have to be a good person, funny, like to do things but also like to just stay home. Someone that like music. thats a big one because I play bass guitar and want to get back into it. She would have to like dog especaly hyper boxers! yea I have one...lol someone that I wouldnt have to worry about sneeking around my back or saying she loves me when she doesn't. Someone who cares about me as much as I do for her. And if we do happen to get married she would have to be mine untill the end of time. thats my mrs right for ya....in a nut shell.