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My husband calls me after leaving a month ago. He took my baby when he left. He has the nerve to ask me what visitations I want. He is wanting joint custody with the baby living with him. I told him I want the baby to live with me. Since we can not agree on that I will have my lawyer call his lawyer. He then said that he wanted to work this out civilly. I told him I want to see my baby. That no judge will like the fact that he has keep my baby from me or that he didn't let me see him for his 1st bday. I am not going to waivier on what I want.
Then he has the nerve to ask me if I have been sleeping with anyone else. WTF?
I am so mad right now. He did tell me that the baby is doing ok though
Then he has the nerve to ask me if I have been sleeping with anyone else. WTF?
I am so mad right now. He did tell me that the baby is doing ok though
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don't waver one iota! it sounds like he is worried! Let him stay that way, you have been worried sick for a long time. Who cares what he "wants".
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I wonder if you can call him on kidnapping? Have you consulted the police? Get a lawyer asap. I'd go postal if someone took my baby.
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Ask him if he would like attend a session with a child specialist who wil help you both create a parenting plan. I am sure that in your case the child that you had together is not being used as a blunt instrument but does not your child have the right to see the two most influential adults in her life work in harmony for her continued growth? If he refuses to see that it takes both of you working together to create a stable environment for her then you shall be comforted by the fact that are doing right by her.
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