For thos of you who don't know...my stbx was unfaithful our entire 12 year relationship (with DOZENS of women), was verbally/emotionally/physically abusive, neglectful, a pathalogical liar, manipulative, and an alcoholic/drug user. With all that said...I'm thinking you know why I filed for divorce last October!!! Anyhow, the struggle that I'm having is that he keeps whining about "I miss you", "I love you", "You're the only woman for me", "I'll never stop trying to get you back", blah-blah-blah. #1). Too late babycakes...that ship has already sailed! #2). Actions speak louder than words--and his actions have pretty much stayed the same #3). I JUST F***ING KNOW BETTER! But it's REALLY pissing me off. He'll pout and CRY if I don't hug him (I said manipulator, right?). But he does this in front of the kids so that I'M the bad guy. I have told him HUNDREDS of times to knock it off and stay away from me...but he never listened to me before, why should now be any different?! Any suggestions would be welcome. Hmmm....maybe if I had a "phantom" boyfriend he'd finally leave me alone (I certainly don't want a REAL one right now!).
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