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where do I start to ge thte process of divorce started. or even better how do I make myself feel like I will be doing the right thing?

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Jojanne, a couple questions here. 1: Do you want to continue to live in a marriage where your H is physically, emotionally & mentally abusive? 2) Do you want your baby to grow up seeing all that kind of stuff in his life? YOU need to do what YOU feel is the right thing, not only for YOU, but first & FOREMOST, for that baby of YOURS. I know you will find a lot of people here that are going through simular situations & there are tons of people here to give you encouragement, advice, support, faith, & hope!~! "Keep Your Chin Up!~!" You're In My Prayers!~!"
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Catfisher replyed on the second part so well ill just stick to first.

If you do dicede to get a divorce, contact an attorny they will take care of most of the papper work and explain everything that you need to do.
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the last couple months I have been leaning further towards the leaving side. when he screamed at the top of his lungs at dustin for crying, I wondered... what would he do when he is crawling.

you are right. the only one I am really worrieda bout is dustin. I want him to grow up in the kind of family i did. full of life and love. but I dont want him to think that people need to be treated that way.
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I believe that a child eminates what they see in their family. If there is abuse then I would be afraid of history repeating itself for the child years from now.
If you really need divorce an attorney will be all you need besides a retainer. Maybe ask friends and family for a recommendation on an attorney?
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did you see the news? A dad hit her daughter in the groin, threw her I think in both the fridge and the microwave so he couldn't hear her cry !!! Then the stupid ass mother said the devil made him do it so she would forgive him and stay!!! WHAT?

You can make him go to parenting classes OR you can do nothing and pray he doesn't hurt your baby someday.

You can file for a divorce without having an attorney and there are many legal aid offices that will help you fill them out correctly if you are low income.
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I have 3 kids and I didn't want my children to grow up in a home, where all they saw were unhappy parents yelling and hurting each other. I decided to file for divorce, and now H is being a better father than when he was at home?
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