Okay, here is my dilema. I live in a small town about 1 1/2 hrs away from my family and about 1hr from the nearest city. I have lived here for 10 yrs and have made some very good friends who are supportive, so I love it up here. But....living here would, I think, lessen my chances of ever meeting someone, although I have lived in more populated areas and the chances there weren't great either. Once I sell the property I will be able to move pretty well where ever I want. If I move closer to my family I am afraid that I will always be caught up in their crap and I am not sure I would be able to deal with that either. The one I am most scared about being to close to is my 33yr old daughter who is bi-polar and not on medication. She can be very very difficult to deal with and she can also be very cruel when she is having one of her episodes. So I am leery of being to close to her. I really don't know what to do. Any suggestions at all???
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