I have only recently begun to contemplate leaving my dh. I still love him so much that the thought of doing so leaves me physically ill, even though he is very insecure and controlling and downright scary at times. I can't eat or sleep. I believe I have codependency issues as well. What I need is to start working out a plan and to find a good therapist to help me through. But where do I find one and where to I start? I'll also need to find a good lawyer and start taking precautions with my finances, etc. I also worry about his mental/emotional stability. I have sat in bed thinking about this for weeks and have nothing to show for it but a bunch of sleepless nights. It's time for me to commit one way or the other, but I'm terrified.
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