Seeking advice. Short version of the situation, seperating from wife of 8 yrs, she will stay in the house till it sells. I have to go, somewhere. An apartment is an option, but selfishly I am TERRIFIED of the isolation and loneliness. another option is to move in, either temporarily or permanently, with my college age daughter and son that have a house about 15 minutes away. They have offered, but I can't tell for sure if the offer is out of fear for my well-being, guilt, or if it is something that would be genuinely benificial and comforting to them in the whole mess. In life in general I'v always been good at breaking an issue down into its various and separate components, but everything is such an emotional jumble I can't seem to tell what the best thing for the kids really is. I don't trust my instincts at all.
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