Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
This is candid camera isn't it?
My STBX gets mad when I sleep in the bed and gets mad when I don't.(can't afford to move out and to tall for the couch.)
She gets mad when I don't help the kids with the homework and gets mad when I do.
She always wanted me to go do grocrey shopping with her and now she says that I had to go with her so she didn't buy needless things because i'm cheap. On top of that, I have been spending $100 every week since this divorce and that's not enough so she went to her lawyer. I also pay all of the mortgage(1550), electricity, cable, internet, phone, heating oil, taxes, ect... not a dime she gives me. She does pay for her car, her medical(which I was paying and she took over, thank God), and some groceries.
So, I guess i'm damed if I do and damed if I don't.
Doesn't madder what I do, she'll hate me for it. She want's residence with the kids and doesn't have the first incling about bills. What is she thinking??????????
My STBX gets mad when I sleep in the bed and gets mad when I don't.(can't afford to move out and to tall for the couch.)
She gets mad when I don't help the kids with the homework and gets mad when I do.
She always wanted me to go do grocrey shopping with her and now she says that I had to go with her so she didn't buy needless things because i'm cheap. On top of that, I have been spending $100 every week since this divorce and that's not enough so she went to her lawyer. I also pay all of the mortgage(1550), electricity, cable, internet, phone, heating oil, taxes, ect... not a dime she gives me. She does pay for her car, her medical(which I was paying and she took over, thank God), and some groceries.
So, I guess i'm damed if I do and damed if I don't.
Doesn't madder what I do, she'll hate me for it. She want's residence with the kids and doesn't have the first incling about bills. What is she thinking??????????
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
What's she thinking?
Hard to say.
Is there anyone that you can stay with?
It's so hard to be in the same house.
Talk to your lawyer, try to get someone to help you two split things up in a way that will cause the least amount of grief on Both sides.
I wish you luck. STBX and I shared the house for three months...that was 2 months and 3 weeks beyond what I could handle. Painful.
(((Hugs)))
We are 5 months into it and still haven't done the custody yet. This is dragging out WAY too long for sure.
You may be spinning your wheels trying to please her. She is well into the "It's all about me!" stage.
Heres one thing you can trust....she has way more than an inkling of what she is going to get out of this, and how much she will have when its over. She knew all that before she pushed your first button.
Enjoy the ride. We are here and will meet you at the other end.