"I love you but I am not in love with you" seems to be so common. So if you love them why not show them by waiting to divorce before you share yourself with someone else. How can you jusitfy that statement when you cause so much pain and hurt. There is no love if you are willing to put the other person through hell. You shatter our self esteem, you break our hearts, you end our dreams, you divide the family, and you don't have the love for yourself to end it right before you jump into bed with someone else. I am not responsible for your actions, though I care enough not to see you get hurt, you do not hold the same value as I do. You have the rest of your life to live and yet you make the choice for the both of us, that it is over. You dont allow yourself time to end it right, you try to validate your actions by blaming us. You dont even see that you are doomed to repeat the same mistakes or to have done onto you what you did onto us. Was it so important to you to go outside the marriage then wait till the divorce and have a clean conscious. Did you not have any selfworth to wait? Did you not think the choice you made will impact you over time? Did you not see your weakness toward temptation sets a bad example for the kids? So I ask you "where is the love" you talk about? I speak on the behalf of all of us that you cheated on for your own self gain. You state we were selfish yet you are the most selfish human being walking the face of the planet. How can you look at yourself in the mirror, how can you look at the ones that love you. You need help.
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