I've been married for 5 yrs. and have a son. Things haven't been the way we'd want them for a while now. We tried our own type of therapy, but here we are today. Sexless, unhappy, etc. The icing on the cake was when I discovered he was talking to a single female for almost a year, about our marriage and who knows what else. He claims it was innocent. I will always think it was wrong. He has us going to our 3rd therapist now. 2 months into it. I'm suppose to be giving this my all. He describes himself in therapy as this happy go lucky man and that I am the negative wife who has brought him down. I've always told him he was miserable and tried my best to make him happy. It's as if I don't know who this man is I'm married to. Our "homework" assignment for this week is to be Ourselves. I've yet to see this fun/happy side of him and am waiting patiently. Every day is a struggle. He wonders why I still don't kiss or touch him. He can't understand that this process will take time. I just don't know if I can go on much longer. My instinct tells me it is not going to work. Then I think of my son and feel I should stay married for him. I'm so confused, hurt and angry.
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