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I suggest having all divorce issues resolved first. Know you are okay with you before getting too serious I would guess.
I would like to hook up with someone deep and meaningful but if that doesn't show up....light is good. I would like to get back there. i haven't dated in 15 years. My husband has been too angry to conect with for the past year and a half....I am so ready to live again!
Strange though how men my age look...old. Maybe i am too.
Divorce has been over since feb 2006, and i have had enough time to accept that alone isnt all that bad.
Funny how life flies by when you are married. You dont notice the aging so much.
The way I see it is, if I was a man, starting sooner than later wouldn't be so bad, and I say the heck with that, if it would be ok for them, then it is ok for me! I can take it at my own speed.
I know for myself, I want to date, but then again I don't. But a few months ago I figured out that getting to know a certain person (and he knows who he is) from DS helped "distract" me from the misery I was in, so it is obviously a good thing.
AND to top it off we're a bit of a distance from each other so it works out well coz you get to know someone but you still have the single "me" time to get yourself together emotionally etc.
So I'm not condoning or condemning online relationships, it's not for everyone, but it is working for me, and that's really the name of the game, to make yourself happy and to get you through rough patches.
On any level of dating, the first step should be taken with a little caution. You saound like you are ready to try.
And I have to agree a lot of men are age do look old, not all but most. Of course looking at those a little younger doesn't hurt either. (snickers) Good luck, happy hunting and be safe.
Some things are the same, many guys out there for one thing and not interested in a relationship (sorry guys), I am sure they can say that about girls who are psycho, too.
Just don't be naiive, people do lie and get ready to try to cut through some of it to get to the truth.
Just my humble suggestion.
Hmm.
I remember.
Men lie when you are married to them too. Oh it is so fun to be a woman.
I am grateful that I met some men on DS that do not appear to be so shallow. If they exsist on DS there must be one here in New Orleans that is datable.