
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
The first morning he came out to drink his coffee by my pond the little old lady that lives overlooking the pond got so mad she turned the hose on him. She's 83.
Look when they make their move all bets are off. I intend to go about my life and when "she" shows up I'll know her.
1. They chose a relationship to avoid dealing with the issued that ended their marriage.
2. They are not willing to work on their issues...so the next relationship will suffer double duty (bad habits poor communication plus unresolved issues).
3 Think about this-- the OW doesn't want to hear about his or her pain related to the previous relationship. There is no out let. It's a formula for disaster...eventually the rebound relationship will crash an burn more often than most.
Our best defence to live a healthier more authentic lives. Work on our issues so we bring a healthier person to our next relationship. Yea it means going thru the pain and delaying gratification. But in the long run we will be happier for it. Hang in there do the work. Eventually you will come to the point of almost feeling sorry for your X because you will most likely live to see their painful issues resurface and rake havoc in their lives.