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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I have been living apart from my ex for about a year, but we have been working on things on and off (not very well). About a week ago I found out he has a new gf (of about 1 or 2 weeks).
All year everytime I was almost over him he hounded me and hounded me until I was stupid enough to let him back into my life. And even though I know we shouldn't be together (won't go into that!) I find the idea of him having a new gf is tearing me apart.
Actually I don't know what to think anymore. To tell the truth I think I am in shock. I can't eat, I want to sleep all day, I feel like I am going to be sick all the time, weepy etc.
Anyone have any ideas of what I can do to get on with my life? I am moving in two months, fresh start and all that, but at the moment I just sit there and do nothing.
All year everytime I was almost over him he hounded me and hounded me until I was stupid enough to let him back into my life. And even though I know we shouldn't be together (won't go into that!) I find the idea of him having a new gf is tearing me apart.
Actually I don't know what to think anymore. To tell the truth I think I am in shock. I can't eat, I want to sleep all day, I feel like I am going to be sick all the time, weepy etc.
Anyone have any ideas of what I can do to get on with my life? I am moving in two months, fresh start and all that, but at the moment I just sit there and do nothing.
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no offense but do you have a heart?
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