
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Unless there is something specific she is looking for from you - your best bet is to stop going after her, and work on yourself.
It will benefit you no matter what course she decides upon.
And as hard as it is to face - you are better off seeking the advice of an attorney as early in the process as possible.
I was focused on reconciliation for the first three months, while my wife was running up credit cards, getting every dental procedure done that you could imagine, and working on her new relationship. Let's just say, I made some decisions in those months that weren't necessarily in my best long term interests.
Best wishes. I am sorry for what you are going through right now, because I know how it feels... and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
I have hope. You may have hope, but sometimes you just have to let go.
Do what you need to do for yourself to be able to move on.
I wish I could have let go 2 years ago when he divorced me instead of wasting all that time holding on. Look where it got me, right back to depression and starting all over from square one.
I really wish you the best, and I will tell you that x told me he came back because he saw a big difference in me. I worked really hard on all the negative things he pointed out to me (even the ones I didn't think were wrong) when he left me. I established a wonderful relationship with God, and was ready to give him my all.
I guess I'm saying, work on yourself. I'm not doing too good at taking my own advice, but that way you aren't disappointed if it doesn't happen, and if it does your pleasantly surprised and also a much better person for you and your marriage. I know I was.
That seems to play a big part in those relationships that reconcile and those who do not...