Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
is it the day when you realize you have taught this person how to treat you and they are treating you poorly? is it the day that you realize the last time they hung up on you was enough? is it when you get encouragement from here seeing all the strength in what everyone else has endured? is it when you see all you have endured? is it when you know you wont have to be alone (i.e. finding a relationship right after)?
and what keeps us going back? after the hang ups? and knowing we deserve more? is it the soft spot we have inside for them? the way they push back our hair and smile?
obviously i am relating this alot to my life, but i know i cant be the only one facing these questions. i have endured a lot. i have endured rape. being gang raped. being verbally abused. being thrown across a room. i have endured loss just like all of us has. why am i so afraid to stand up and be strong and say "i cant endure this any longer. you are never going to see it the way i do. you are never going to endure the pain you gave me. you are never going to take responsibility for your actions".
i have been alone before. i have had loss before. is this really the hardest thing i have had to face in my life? no. then why is it so hard to walk away?
look forward to hearing everyones comments.
and what keeps us going back? after the hang ups? and knowing we deserve more? is it the soft spot we have inside for them? the way they push back our hair and smile?
obviously i am relating this alot to my life, but i know i cant be the only one facing these questions. i have endured a lot. i have endured rape. being gang raped. being verbally abused. being thrown across a room. i have endured loss just like all of us has. why am i so afraid to stand up and be strong and say "i cant endure this any longer. you are never going to see it the way i do. you are never going to endure the pain you gave me. you are never going to take responsibility for your actions".
i have been alone before. i have had loss before. is this really the hardest thing i have had to face in my life? no. then why is it so hard to walk away?
look forward to hearing everyones comments.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
It's hard. In order to have survived this much and gotten to where you are in this moment, you have had to have a well of strength.
Now reach down into that reserve and get out.
Get help.
you know how.
You are ready.
You know how I know that?
Because you are asking the question.
Good luck and God Bless.