This is the first time I've posted anything.Please be gentle. LOL I've been divorced now six years in June. I haven't been wiht anyone since the break up of my marriage. I've dealt with all types of abuse from childhood and at the end of my marriage. I'm beginning to think it would be nice to meet someone. How do I know if I'm healed? I worry that I will end up making any man pay for the sins of those who have abused me. I'm still working on trust. To be completely honest, living in a very small community, not being into the bar scene or the on line dating scene, I dont' even know how to go about meeting anyone. I feel like a fish out of water. I don't want ot be a lone forever, yet I'm too afraid to do anythign about it.
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