
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
When do you know it's time to pack in the bags.

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When has that line been crossed? I feel like my wife is trying to ignore me. We haven't been happy for a few months at least but lately it has been getting worse. She works flexible hours as a care provider and lately she finds excuses to stay an hour later. When she comes home she says hi to the kids and ducks outside for a smoke and a chat without saying hi to me. She doesn't talk to me.
I want to save my marriage but not if I can't save myself. I want to send a better message to my kids. I mean, what if I can't make it alright again? What if this time its the end? I don't even know how to judge that. I just don't know.
I want to save my marriage but not if I can't save myself. I want to send a better message to my kids. I mean, what if I can't make it alright again? What if this time its the end? I don't even know how to judge that. I just don't know.
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