My husband and I have been together for about 5 years and I feel like I just can't take staying together anymore. We care about eachother very much, but we're just completely incompatible. I know I'm not perfect and I've made mistakes as well, but I feel like his depression is the biggest factor in our relationship problems. He refused to take his medication anymore or go to therapy... I feel like I'm trapped and there's no way out. I'm so out of control! I love and care about this man deeply, but he's making me miserable. We also have next to nothing in common. Before he stopped taking his medication a year ago (three days before our wedding), our differences didn't seem like a big deal. But now, all of those differences in lifestyle, personality, interests, and what we want for the future are bearing down hard on us. What do I do? Should I leave? Beg him to take his meds even though he's refused in the past? Give ultimatums? I feel so lost and alone... please help. It's killing me. I already feel like we've broken apart...
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