I found out my husband was cheating on me. I had hoped it was only a sex thing, but its not. He told me he loves her and its been going on for a year. I have been so decisive, thinking I could somehow save our marriage. Even though we had problems for a long time I still love him and this hurts so much. We are already taking legal action toward a divorce, but god help me its not what I want. We have been talking for the first time in a long time and he kept telling me he is not in a hurry for a divorce, that this other woman is not his future and that even though he doesn't love me, he just needs time. Our mediation hearing with lawyers is tomorrow so I asked him if this is what he wants and he says yes. But I can see the uncertainty in his face. I wish he would just be honest with me and quit giving me mixed signals. I wish so badly things were different.
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