I am going to see my lawyer about filing for divorce on Monday. (I am scared and nervous about this.) I am wondering when do I tell STBX? Do I tell him before or after the appointment? My lawyer says that I have to let him know to expect divorce papers. This won't come as a surprise to him. He has known that we were heading to this. I do not think that he expects it to happen this soon. He was hoping that the decision would wait for him to make the decision in 2010. So, when do I tell him?
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