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When do I stop trying to show him how wrong he is?

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You know, overall, I am doing amazingly well considering what I have been through. My husband repeatedly cheated on me and left me for his paralegal. I KNOW it is a problem with him and not with me or our marriage. BUT, I can't seem to let go of trying to show this to him. A lot of times I send him quotes from here that resonate with our situation. He just responded, "Why do you send me this stuff? Do you think it will make me a better father? If not, why do you care?"
Why do I keep doing that? How do I stop caring that he thinks it is something about me or our relationship?
Why do I keep doing that? How do I stop caring that he thinks it is something about me or our relationship?
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He was my first real boyfriend at age 18.
Eventhough he did horrible things to me......cheated with a co worker for over 5 years.......
I want him to continue begging me to take him back, to say he loves me ( whether I truly believe that he could have loved me and cheated..)
just crazy emotions all mixed together.
I know, I was married for 27 years to my best friend. When he met this other woman, all of a sudden what was a happy marriage became (I'm in love with another woman and I think I've been unhappy for a long time but didn't know it).
I was floored! I found this out 1 week after my 27th anniversary where we held hands in a romantic dinner and told each other how much we loved each other!
Well that was in Sept.
I have spent the past 5.5 months trying to get this man to work on our marriage to no avail. I have given up.
I deserve better and guess what... "So do you!".