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When do I make the move to ask him to leave

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My husband and I have been married 7 years. We have a 2 year old boy. My husband cheated 3 years ago. Since then we went to counseling, I made moves to re-excite our sex life. I have been supporting him while he goes to school, though he gets money through the GI Bill. Additionally I helped with taking care of his daugter from a previous marriage as well as HIS stepdaughter while their mother was deployed. She will be deployed again and we will have his daughter for over a year. Anyway, a month ago AFTER we went to Hawaii, I discovered that the night before we left for a trip to Hawaii he was seeking 'discrete encounters' with women via the internet. I found out after we got back. Anyway, he said he would stop. Well I discovered today that he has restarted it. Logistically asking him to leave at this time is hard. I travel for work and as I said we have a child. Additionally we are supposed to have his daughter in the fall for the year. Logistically, being a single Mom is a difficult option at this point in time. I can't take it anymore. What is wrong w/ this man? I am so scared of being a single Mom. I know I can do it. I'm financially okay but I don't want the stigma.
Any input would be appreciated. I do have some support to help me when I travel. I'm looking for new employment in Colorado where I am from.
Any input would be appreciated. I do have some support to help me when I travel. I'm looking for new employment in Colorado where I am from.
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