
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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When do I give up hope? When do I try to move on and try to heal? How long should I put up with this before I break? (My situation has been going on since September 7th) I got this e-mail from my husband this morning:
"I'm sorry I don't have concrete answers for you. I'm sorry that this situation has come about. This was not by design. You can look at it as throwing it away, or you can try and look at it, no matter how it turns out as a collection of wonderful experiences....both good and bad, but experiences shared. I have much I need to attend to for myself. And believe me, I know that sounds selfish, but true. How can I be with someone when I haven't learned to be with myself? It's not a journey I can do with you, with , with anyone...put all that aside, I need to do things for myself, and of course at the same time try to provide the care and love I need for our daughter and you. It's not easy. It's not what either one of us signed up for, but it is where things are at."
"I'm sorry I don't have concrete answers for you. I'm sorry that this situation has come about. This was not by design. You can look at it as throwing it away, or you can try and look at it, no matter how it turns out as a collection of wonderful experiences....both good and bad, but experiences shared. I have much I need to attend to for myself. And believe me, I know that sounds selfish, but true. How can I be with someone when I haven't learned to be with myself? It's not a journey I can do with you, with , with anyone...put all that aside, I need to do things for myself, and of course at the same time try to provide the care and love I need for our daughter and you. It's not easy. It's not what either one of us signed up for, but it is where things are at."
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This is so much like what I was told 6 months ago. Trust me if you don't step back now and let him be, you will push him farther away. I wanted answers, he couldn't give them, so I pushed and I have made things much worse. We are now divorced, hardly speaking with an 8 year old son in between us. I know its hard but reach within yourself and try to step back. Focus on your daughter.
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