Did your stbx or ex surprise you by leaving and tell you that "you should have seen it coming"? That's what mine did, and after almost 3 weeks of thinking about little else, I still can't get there. Were there things that made our relationship less exciting and romantic? Yes. We've been married 12 years and have 4 children. I think we got to that typical, comfortable married place that many people do. But we weren't arguing and fighting constantly, no one was sleeping on the couch, we still talked about many things, we still had a "private life". He never said the words separation, divorce, or moving out. None of that. What was I supposed to see?
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