I'm having a hard time justifying leaving my husband. Although I feel like I've tried everything I could to make our marriage work, we just cant seem to get it together. I've been thru alot and put up with alot, but it still makes me feel like the damage that has been done is not enough to break up my marriage. I've been told by many friends on DS and in person that when I reach that certain point, there will be no doubt, no hesitation and the choice to leave will be clear. So I was hoping I could get some instances from some who struggled with this decision and finally left. What was it that made you finally say "I'm done" and mean it? I'm hoping that if I have some example of what to look for, I'll know it when I see it. Of course, any infidelity or physical abuse aside...I'd know for sure I could leave if one of those 2 things happened. Thanks.
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