
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
What to do when you still have things to say?

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I have recenlty been separated and filed for divorce after a 20 year relationship. H tells me one day that he is unhappy, getting old and wants to separate. Refused marriage counseling and later I find out he is having an affair with a younger woman without kids. We have 3 beautiful children, and we have our good and bad days. It has been 2 months and when I see him, I have very mixed feelings, eventhough he is very cold with me. I am being strong and I am not showing any emotions, but I feel that there are things unsaid. What to do?
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Try writing him a letter - but don't give it to him. Also keep a journal. Put all of your feelings down. Feelings aren't right or wrong, they're just feelings. It's ok not to show your emotions to him, but you need a way to deal with them and not stuff them. A good counselor can be very helpful. I thought counseling was just paying someone to listen, but it's really a lot more than that. If they're good, they will mirror the real you; help you to get the real you back. Hugs.
Hugs! This is hard work!