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My husband and I tried for over a year to get pregnant, but we never could. We have been separated for almost a month now. He lives with his girlfriend. Friday I found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant. He says it's a sign from GOD that we are meant to be together. He says he wants to be a family. He is a wonderful father. He has a son with his ex. He loves kids more than anything. When we decided to start trying over a year ago he said that once I got pregnant he would stop smoking. Well he called me today to tell me he has only had one cigarette. He's just so excited. But on the other hand i don't understand why he's still with her if he says he wants a family. He tells me that he is moving out this weekend. I ask why wait, but i already know that answer. He has somethings he needs to take care of first. I just don't want to give my hopes up, but i also don't want to ignore it if it is a sign from GOD. Because we quit trying about 5 months ago. What to do??? Help
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In any case, I would look into Child support. I don't think you can actually get money until the baby is here, but at least you will know what you need to do when the time comes. And I would continue the process after the baby is here, regardless if he is there or not,,,,at least until you are for sure he isn't going anywhere. My sister and I both had to learn the hard way, that cancelling the child support early was a big no no. Good luck & keep us posted.
but thats just my two cents. please think it through. you dont want to get hurt anymore.
I am sorry you are going through this, emotions play us something terrible. If I were to take a strickly practicle approach, I would NOT get back with him! Looking at his history and seeing that it is repeating itself. Also, he will probably continue to sweet talk you.
That is just a warning. I am not a profit to be sure, but I see more heart break in the long run if you get back with him!
If you and your relationship are not enough for him now what gives him any insentive to stay the next time things get rough?
These are things you have to consider.
The only baby that was a sign from god was born a long time ago! A blessing from god certainly, but a sign.....not too likely!
I am the type of person if you dont want to be with me, then dont do me any friggin favors. Its not my job to entice anyone to be with me.
If you have a strong support system like family or friends I would seriously keep in touch with them as you are going to need all the help you can get.
I wish you and the baby well....