My wife has reconnected with an old friend(man) who she had a short fling with before we were married. As a fact we got married because she got pregnant and I stepped up no questions asked, now she says it is probably his. After 14 years of marriage she started complemplating divorce and then was put in touch with this guy. He lives in Texas and we in NJ. She wouldn't move my son before he graduates 8th grade next year. And I can't work and have no where to go. She is resisting trying one last time to work out our problems in the year we will almost certainly spend together. Now if I start the hardball now, I will have no hope of a relationship with my son after they move, if I play her game I may waste a year of moving on in my life and be setting myself up for the screwing of a lifetime. Any suggestions appreciated
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