Well I don\'t know what to do anymore. My stbx told me that he would call me before he left his mom\'s house to tell me when he was bringing the kids back. I waited until 11:30 then I called. He said some time this afternoon but that he would call me before he left. His mom lives an hour away. So I told him I was running to the little dollar store a few blocks from my house to pick something up for my vac because I was having problems with it. ( I have to walk every place because I do not have a car). I got to the store and by time I got to the line the lines were packed. I stayed in line figuring that I had the time because after all when I called he said he wasn\'t ready to bring the kids back. Well when I came back I saw their cell phone number on my phone caller id. The call came only minutes before I came home. I called them and they said they tried to call me 4 times. Well they showed up 2 minutes later with the kids. I told the kids to get inside so I could talk to the adults. I wanted to talk about them never giving me a certain time they were going to pick up the kids and drop them off. They started he and his mom started yelling at me in front of the kids. Then suddenly, when their dad left they dropped a bomb on me. First they said that dad lied and did not call 4 times. He sent the youngest out of the truck to knock and when I did not answer. He said I was probably knocked out on the floor. Then hurried up and called me. They were trying to set me up as not caring about my kids. They said that if I had not come home when I did that he was taking off and I would have had to spend 120 dollars in cab fair to get them back or he was running back to Colorado with them. Next they tell me that they witnessed some drunken party in which the adults were drinking so much that the adults let their cousins, aged 14 and 12 drink alcohol. The 14 year old was so drunk she almost got alcohol poisoning. She was sprawled out everywhere. She was horribly ill the next morning. They said that the adults were scared but refused to bring her to the hospital because they were afraid of going to jail. What to do?? Or is there anything I can do?
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