
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It's extremely hard for two people to work on their relationship with a third party involved.
It deals with exactly this type of situation.
Good luck. I hope for the best. What ever that may be.
Doesn't look good. I agree with Deb.
Lynne
No one deserves to be treated this way. I realize that you love her but she doesn't love you if she is acting like this and it takes two people to make a marriage work.
Protect yourself. It is hard to go through this but you can survive this and come out better off in the end.
A poisonness marriage poisons your entire life, including your health. Take care of #1 so you don't get tossed into #2.
If she's flying her OM to be with her, she isn't really giving any thought to the marriage. None!
After 10 years together how do i cope without her???? The thought of not being with her hurts so much
You may want to really take a hard look at a lawyer that knows several laws; U.S, state, and International laws (since SA is involved).
I think you have to accept that your marriage is over. Time to lawyer up.
Hugs.
You know she is taking the other man with her? did she tell you or did you find out on your own? either way.. she isnt hiding it..
I understand loving someone, but with love comes respect.. for eachother and vows you both took... she is demonstrating she has no respect for either..
Why would you want someone who has so little regard for your feelings back at all? Just knowing they are spending the next 5 weeks together.. and after that you actually want her to come back and be with you? She is tainted now.. its no longer just the two of you "til death do you part".. its the two of you and Egypt man.. and whoever else may eventually come in the picture.. Rarely do you hear about just one affair, most people here can tell you, you forgive one and years later find out about 10 more.
You deserve so much more than that... Get a lawyer, and when she gets off the plane, as a welcome home gift, have her served with the divorce papers . you do not deserve this at all...
(((HUGS))) and good luck!
Seriously, do you really want to be with someone who is so blatantly rubbing your nose in her affair? It would seem she's made the choice for you.
If anything, I think go see a lawyer just to know what the next step is, you don't have to actually file, but just get legal wise.
sorry... I know how it feels when the person you love runs off with someone else.