How do you know what is best for the kids when your heart is in turmoil? How do you know that you aren't being vindictive to stbx? Sometimes I wonder if I am doing the right thing. I want so much to do what is right for the kids but the emotions are so strong I'm not always sure. Is there some way or some rule that you go by? My brother is a father of 3 and his ex took the kids miles away and he hardly ever saw them. She also bad mouthed him to the kids and they now have very little relationship. I don't think that is good for the kids and don't want to do that to mine even though I wish there father wouldn't come around because it would be easier. Not that he comes around much anyway but it seems that when he does the kids get all upset. My youngest is throwing up again 2 or 3 times a day. Stbx is coming tomorrow, go figure!!! Any advice would be welcome. Thanks
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