I am taking the initiative in my divorce...clearly the hardest thing I have ever had to do since I am w/ kiddos...and this whole Divorce thing has been a long time coming and no surprise to him, however his family and friends are in shock (this is his second divorce and w/ the wife leaving him)...hmmm...anyway, he has like the WORLD thinking I went out and cheated on him. That I have some fella I met or some online thing coupled w/ my "extravagent" spending. !!!!! Nothing of the sort! So naturally every one of his friends is thinking I'm this terrible person. With the natural feelings of uncertainty I experience here and there but confident I'm doing the right thing and all this chatter about me and creating so much more out of nothing, I am sick. Especially if my kids think this is true (if they get wind of this OR overhear people talking. ugh. What do you think...how to get thru this stuff?
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