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What lead to your divorce?

GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
I was just asked this question in private but think it's a good one for here.

My answer though?

"Years and years of marriage"
deleted_user
deleted_user
when i caught him telling another woman she was his everything.
deleted_user
deleted_user
she cheated twice,i forgave her the first time and the second time told me she didn't love me and left
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have been trying to figure that out for 2 years. She never gave me a reason.
deleted_user
deleted_user
His mid life crisis.. he threw me away like garbage.
Faith75
Faith75
When his anger got worse then before, my panic attacks got worse and had a fear I was going to be physically abused again. Just wasn't still happy as I wanted to be. *sighs* ~shelly&jt~
deleted_user
deleted_user
she thought the world had more to offer without me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I woke up to the fact that if I stayed with this man, i would never be happy.
I would never reach the goals that were/ are important to me.
And really, that he didn't love or respect me. Not like I deserve to be loved and respected.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My depression, mood swings, obsessional behaviour over cleaning....coupled with his mid life crisis, golf and the pub.
deleted_user
deleted_user
He never found anything about me to be of interest to him.
solongbye
solongbye
Drugs, internet affairs, lies, porn, true life affairs, wanting someone dumber than him. Narcisstic personality..and oh yes he hated that I was perfect:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
When he had an affair with a college student in the church that HE pastored. That was the final straw for me.
I DON'T SHARE!
deleted_user
deleted_user
He told me that he didn't want to be married any more and that he loved me but was not in love with me then he stated dating ow
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was served with divorce papers and thought, Okay, I'm going to get a divorce.
deleted_user
deleted_user
He said we were too different, I didn't share his interests, he loved me, not in love with me...and he was seeing someone else.
deleted_user
deleted_user
She cheated and I wasn't very forgiving about it.
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