First off I am the cheater and I am disgusted with myself. I had intended to tell my wife as I left the home as soon as i realized what I was doing, after a couple of months her and I started counseling, it was my intention to tell her what horrible things I done, by the counseler and myself thought it would be better that we dealt with some of the deeper issues before revealing the truth, my wife suspected but had not proof, I wanted to come clean and try to deal with the mess I created, but she got proof first and I then went to my home and answered all her questions, she of course threw me out ( I would have thrown myself out ) My question is is it any easier to deal with an affair if the spouse is told the truth prior to getting the evidence, would it had been easier on my spouse if it had of been revealed in a more clinical setting or is there no easy way. A cheater is a cheater and that is the end of it
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