Ok so my x has not really talked to me about anything thru the whole divorce process except for things about the kids. Which I was fine with but now that it is final he keeps trying to talk to me like I am his best friend again. On top of that he keeps suggesting that we do things together and with his family. I keep telling him that it is just to hard for me to be around him that much time and doing things like shopping for our daughters birthday gift together just isn't what I need right now. I have even been mean towards him. Which anyone who knows me knows that even that is hard for me to do still. How many times and in the same easy to words say NO I CANT DO THAT can I do this over and over again. How does someone go from not talking to you at all(because I covered my own butt with a lawyer since he filed papers) for the last 6mnths then when it is final what to act like none of it happened? And on top of that the woman that he was with isn't in the pic. I feel like he is using me and I don't want any part of that. Anyone else go thru this when it was all final?
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