we have been 2gether 9 yrs and married 4. he is not attracted to me anymore sexually. now my ? is how can he be sexually attracted to someone when he was injured 8 years ago in an accident and is paralyzed from the ribs down. are sex life was never the same. he is moving so quickly on decisions. like we have only been to 3 therapy sessions and 2 weeks ago he moved in with his parents and goes out almost everynight with people from work. i was just told a month ago he was feeling this way about me. i know he needs space but i am confussed. he says he loves me and wants things to work if he has those feelings about me. he says i can not do anything to change the way he feels but he is not trying 100% either. he commited to 8 weeks of therapy yesterday and says he wants to try. any advice for someone who is just devastated. i am trying everything to keep m marriage 2gether
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